How to get a girl

1. Look your best. Get some decent clothes and shoes.Beautiful Women always love and looks at your shoes, even if you last checked your Nikes in 1996. Get clothes that fit you. Don't just buy one outfit, sort out your entire wardrobe. If you can't take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of her? Dating! Ladies seek men for love.

2. Sort out your hygiene and styling. Women looking for dating. Go down to the barbers and clean up your hair, getting it styled if possible. If you don't have much hair, still get down to the salon, maybe get your head shaved. Or just get a regular shave, a professional shave will leave your face looking and feeling great. Then it is off to the shops with you for good quality cologne and a grooming kit. Men are so often criticized for smelling bad. Get into a regular showering routine so you will always smell fresh and clean. Women appreciate it.

3. Sort out your job if you have one. Women and girls want a man who has some ambition in life, even single women. Coasting along as a skateboard instructor is generally not going to win you a real catch (though I'd give it a go, I love skateboarding). Any job is better than none, but knuckle down and sort out some direction in your life. If possible try and look like you have something of a career. If you have a manual job, at least have some plans to work for yourself, and if you already do, then you are on the right track. But know what you are about work wise and have some idea of your future plans because women will ask questions about your prospects.

4. Be in the know. Make sure you are up to date with current affairs, watch the news and read quality papers. Women do not appreciate stupidity, and laziness is no excuse for sounding dumb. Current affairs are important in showing you know all about the world we live in. If you travel a lot then this will help tremendously. If you don't, make plans to travel and tell her about it. Meet new people. Proving you are willing and able to plan vacations is essential in the grand scheme of things.


5. Do not extol the virtues of drinking in the bar 5 nights a week. This will never win any fair princess's heart or even girlfriend. If you spend all your time boozing with the boys, it's time to take a step back and pick up some more productive habits. Taking your lady for a drink is fine, especially if you take her to get cocktails at a nice lounge, but give them the impression that you live there will get you absolutely nowhere fast.

6. Keep your super fan status in check. If you love your sports and enjoying watch the game with your buddies, fine. If you are serious about dating, ranting about unfair umpires and constantly check the score will put them off in record time. Find singles or find a date is hard. To the uninitiated, sports are completely boring, and many women interpret the obsession as a total lack of thought, creativity or inspiration. Millions of girls love sports too, and rooting for the same team is great, but don't make your passion into a one-sided one.

9. Never expect sex on a first date. If all you are after is sex, you have come to the wrong place for reading material. If you are looking for the girl of your dreams, there is nothing sexier than a patient man. You are easily capable of waiting for the right woman.

10. Read up on manners, courtesy and chivalry. A woman love, likes being treated with respect. Lose the coarse language, the swear words, the rudeness and the laziness. Know how to eat in a top restaurant. Know about fashion, jewelry and flowers. Know how to hold a door open for a woman, let her go first and help her with her seat. Listen to what she says but have opinions of your own too. Show her respect and manners at every step and you'll be on the right path.




11. Start listening and stop talking. Keep your date interested but don't turn into a one-man circus. She will bore of you quickly because she wants to talk about herself too. Listen to things she tells you about her and remember them. Women love to chat so you need to learn to listen to her. Remembering things she told you will impress her even more.

12. Learn to dance even if you have two left feet. Women love to dance.

13. Every man has flirting potential Generally, women will take flirting the right way, provided there’s a level of interest there and you’re not being ridiculously offensive. Flirting is all about technique, and I think that all guys are capable of being good flirts -- a lot depends on your approach, though. I find British guys are more full-on with flirtatious texts and that kind of thing. For some reason they tend to be more creative. But when it comes to real-life situations, guys from other nations are much better because they tend to be more confident and up-front.

14.Confidence is key I find that people can see right through you if you're lacking in confidence, and then the whole impact of your flirting ends up being compromised. Acting too interested, being over-flattering via text messaging or asking for pictures is a big mistake in my book unless you have known each other a while. And being cheesy with the flirting is out the door with me -- I hate that. I think if you can get a girl going, have a bit of banter with her, and make her laugh, it most certainly can make you more attractive to her.